hey gary, don't worry, your son (cousin brian) turned out much better than your rival brother's son (me) ...brian's doing quite well...I saw his nice house..he's got a beautiful wife, nice kids (I assume) ..you did well, gary, u have nothing to be jealous of, ..I'm just doing my little evangelical thing...no real material possessions, the crystal cathedral is going bankrupt, ..u can laugh, its ok gary, you "won". My only hope is heaven, and I'm not even a very good person in that regard...just hoping for some grace ...So God be with you, Gary & Shirley. You won, don't worry. peace out